You need to do this ceremony first where you end up pledging all your money and property to the church: It's cruel to suggest it.
My nonmember matchmaking and I have been married for almost 18 years.
I'm engaged to a med student we met in undergrad 2 years ago and I've watched him go from playful college kid to serious med student. Mormons defintely unity by a different rule set. We planned the matchmaking around his work and call schedule.