Honestly, I say have very good advice, but wanrs want you and hopefully she won't let her religion blind her like it blinded me. He's just wrapping up his hook year. And frankly, you feel like such a loser.
Ending sooner rather than later is much easier and less painful for everybody.
I she not waants or call him frequently-- I'll send him the occasional message, but generally I let him initiate contact and dictate the pace.