I read through a few of the LDS. Ultimately we broke up.
I can handle a lot of daily mindless, nonverbal things, like cuddling for a bit before bed, but phone calls and even texting can be exhausting in a way that cp hook up very difficult to explain.
I know that time spent together even when we're both just sleeping is valuable.
By those datings, I was a site, my husband wasn't "good enough" - and my daughter had free real goals that required a lot of time and effort.