I've been thinking more about your situation and another thing came to mind.
5 reasons you totally shouldn't date a girl with cats
I girl input into our activities for dates, and this works out dating since we're very compatible and like spending leisure time the same way. In fact, when I cat met him, I had no idea he was even a full fledged doctor.
I don't care about the money, I have suggested him to downsize if needed for him to with less.