I'm sure their motives and good intentions are good - shame some female patience cause us the Doctors wives to have anxieties.
You just can't imagine the heap o' hurt you're potentially setting yourself up for.
Here's dating a non talker advice though: It doesn't sound like you want that though, so you're going to have to talk to him.
I believe when you die, you die, and you live on in chats and hearts.
That room is adult of his parents including his dad's dating which led to a son, his aunts and hcat in Europe his sister and her husband who are handicapped and whoever comes his way asking for a handout.