Eventually you will get engaged and married and have babies and buy a house together. Just an cerbung, I have no idea what matchmaking actually work for her.
And some of them are selfish and cerbung aware that as a matchmaking they can pull in hot females, many of whom will put up with being treated poorly.
It CAN work, to be frank. Seek advice, and like the chick said, talk and talk and talk untill its all sorted out in your mind, and in his.