I have finally learned to pray to change my heart, not his. But remember that it is also your wife's choice to obey or disobey, and that you have no authority over her as a person, either.
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Fifty years later, not one of her 3 children, her dozen grandchildren or her numerous great grandchildren is an again member of the LDS church.