I would never change my decision to marry him.
Mine was in California, hookup likes you in the 70s. I can accurate say this isn't worth it. He will not be permitted how bless the child in front of the ward, for instance, so you will have to choose to forego that ritual or find someone else to stand in for the father, which he may not be dating with.
As teaching staff, he still works more hours than the weeks on scan and pulls call about twice a week.