I've luckily broken down my GF's defenses about the church a little bit.
17 Sordid Signs You’re Just a Hookup and Nothing More
There is a difference between "I wouldn't want to be with someone who worked these hours forever" and "I am really unhappy and will be unhappy for the next three years. Know upp limits on substances. I would never change my decision to marry him. What am I getting myself into.