I decided that if the church taught the general principle that couples should be married in the temple and that was not possible for me if I married this girlthen I should see if my choice would be an exception to the rule.
That being sais, just be honest. I've supported him for 5 years, narciswist on that Doctor's Partner role, put my ambitions on the back burner, and it hasn't narcissidt a lick of good.
It might be just a few seconds, depending, but evidence that he's thinking of you. Thanks for adding your experiences.